Kikay maaceacebe amia ka samapasudaudalruane ka bunguka, singikanadruma ikay sanakacekele, mialrita ka kacalrisaine, saniange ikay ki Ngudradrekay, amaaceacebane ka kidredreedreme lini, lripacay madu ki sakiadremedreme, ai ngualuadhane kay abake madu, lakamani ku tukucingalre lini turamuru ku apangimiane lulrimaaceacebe, lulriacebe. Ngimialringa kuini vaga kuini “lukiacebe su, lritara pangibilri su acebe ki waacebe numiane”, amia kikay vagangata makanaelre.
Ikay naiyane ka Ngudradrekay taykalrane ku tapangimiamaine maceacebe, amani ki wacekecekele madu, ki tarudrawdrange ki lavavalake ki laagaagane, ki talrailragi si laaliali madu, ki lritudrane madu, ki dantay madu, ki suakiwkay. Ai, ku maadraw ku acebane, amani ki siasilangane kudra ki amuane madu mupaapalange, pawakalrivili kudra acebane ku lamanemane, ala kamani lukarudrarudrange ku katalragiane madu si matatulaali madu, ala kamani ki paungulu ki tarudrawdrange, ai, ki tuathalithiane kaikawaacebe, wasaasa amia ku kakuthane.
Ku nituadravane ku maaceacebe, amani ki paapcebe ki sawvalay ka lalake ka agane, mua kuini pasiagiagisi ka ramavane madu ka retesane ka lakaukawlu ka talialaalay, ku rarukudrane amani kuini wacekecekele si malrituatudrane ka marubu si kelrete ku vai si mua satedre baai kuini tuaredelane ka lrimua acebe.
Kuaalri madu ka nawacebe amiamia kidredredreme, lamialri kumadu ka kiaacebe, maramaw ku sakiadudulru madu ngipapadulru, ai, mathaithairiri kay kidredreme madu,sidrama ku apasikaiyane si drima ku retesane madu.
Kikay maaceacebe amaninga kudra pakalimeeme madu ka matelrege ka amece.
禮尚往來的文化禮儀,是魯凱族自古就形成的好文化。
我們魯凱族送禮的對象,除了一般的平常的伴手禮之外,最重的是家庭之間在左右鄰居的儀式,和男女情人交朋友時的形式,真是需要家族大陣仗,彼此支援物品,才能展現誠意獲得好評。然而,最高興和感到光榮的是那收到禮物的家庭或家族,之後,就是開始準備需要回贈的內容和時日,一般都是會超出加倍的東西,以更顯現他們的能力和誠意享受最甜蜜的負擔。